Am I Being Abused?

Recognizing instances of abuse within a relationship can be a challenging task, as the severity of domestic violence tends to escalate over time.

While this checklist is not an complete "Danger Assessment," it serves as a valuable tool to determine potential warning signs of abuse.

If you answer yes to any of the questions below, we strongly urge you to contact our helpline at 407-330-3933 for immediate assistance.

  • Does your partner threaten to kill you, the children, friends/family or themselves?

  • Does your partner prevent you from seeing friends or family?

  • Does your partner have access to weapons? Have they ever threatened you or used a weapon against you?

  • Has your partner ever used their hands or an object to choke or strangle you?

  • Has your partner ever said statements like, “You can never leave me;” “If I can’t have you, no one else can;” “Death before divorce”?

  • Has your partner stalked you, taken you hostage or abducted you (held you or taken you against your will)?

  • Do you have access to your finances? Does your partner demand receipts from your purchases or give you an allowance?

  • Does your partner prevent you from gaining or maintaining employment?

Abuse can happen to anyone.

It is not your fault.